This
story is far from the first of its kind—unfortunately, it repeats itself every
month, week, day across the United States. Overwhelmed by the generally sudden
prospect of caring for an elderly family member who may be suffering from a
varying degree of memory loss, more and more individuals are turning to care
facilities. If the prospect of seeing your loved one suffer at the hands of an
ill-equipped facility makes you weary but the idea of independently caring for
your loved one is too much to bare, take note—there are resources available to
ensure that your family member is safe, loved, and well cared for.
Seek Help
Before
you make care arrangements for your family member, make sure you consult a
Senior Care Advisor. These people will often work for care facilities (in home,
apartment communities, independently contracted nurses, etc) but are a good
resource for choosing the facility that is right for you. Often, referral
agencies will be able to put you in touch with someone who can help. You can
also contact the Society of Certified
Senior Advisors, a professional network of advisors who may assist you.
Read
Reviews
Fortunately, sites like Care Compare allow you to view
user-submitted reviews for all homes or services in their network of care professionals. This is
a great way to evaluate a particular facility—if there’s a problem, someone is
very likely to have written about it. Because these reviews come from
individuals and families, they’re
generally unbiased and informative.
Take a Tour
Luckily,
most reputable facilities will allow you to tour them as many times as you
like, be they assisted living facilities or office buildings that dispatch
in-home care professionals. If they refuse, this is a major red flag—seek
facilities who are open, willing to work with you, and committed to finding
answers for all of your questions. In these cases, rely on your instincts. If a
facility or company doesn’t pass the smell test, it may not be the right fit
for you.
Read
Finally,
get as much information as you can from the resource at your immediate
fingertips—the internet. Many individuals are blogging about their experiences
with senior care, good and bad. These kinds of personal accounts of caregiving
can help you make a choice that is right for you and your loved one.
Elder
abuse is not the norm, but it is certainly something to be aware of as you
prepare to make potentially difficult decisions regarding those you love. By
being aware and informed, you ensure care that meets your needs and offers
plenty of loving support for your loved one.
Madison
Hill lives in Seattle where
she’s still figuring out the finer points of Alzheimer’s
care. When she’s not renting rowboats, you can find her sipping Starbucks and
enjoying a book of poetry.