Some people look
at this holiday season as a joyous time; others look at it with dread. Buying
gifts, putting up decorations, cooking, baking, entertaining – there is a lot
to do. Do these things sound fun or frustrating?
If you are a
family caregiver for a senior loved one, you might dread having to do all of
these extra things because you are already overwhelmed. Caring for your loved
one takes time – cooking meals, feeding, grooming, medicating…the list could go
on and on. That is on top of everything else you have to do – spouse, kids,
activities, friends, career. The list of activities never ends! Then add all
the hustle and bustle of the holidays on top of it and you might find it hard
to keep afloat.
But it doesn’t
have to be that way. Especially at this time of the year, we all should have
gratitude for the things we have. Finding peace, even in the small things, is
not impossible. Although there may be some added work, the holidays can still
be joyous.
Here are 5 tips to
help you make the most of the holiday season:
·
Make a list and
check it twice. If it works for Santa, it can
work for you too! Do you need to shop for gifts? Identify who you are shopping
for, what they want and where you will find it. Do your homework online before
you go. If you are so inclined, get your shopping done online and save yourself
the trip to the mall. Is there extra baking and cooking to get ready for
company? Pull out your recipes, check your ingredients and make sure you have
what you need. This will save you from having to make multiple trips to the
grocery store. The time you save from making fewer trips to the store can be
used for doing something fun with your family instead.
·
Get the family
involved in baking or cooking. Did your mom used to make
special Christmas cookies? Or was there a special dish that she made for
dinner? Get your loved one involved with a holiday activity. Let your mom
measure flour, use the cookie cutter to stamp out cookie shapes, or put icing/sprinkles
on the special holiday cookies. This gets mom involved in the activity while
being engaged with you or even the grandkids. Why not let them help as well and
create new memories and traditions! It’s a win-win.
·
Go to a holiday
event. Almost every town has some sort
of holiday event happening in the next few weeks. Is there a parade, light
festival, concert, bazaar or other event happening nearby? Do your kids have
school concerts or parties where family members are invited? Find something the
whole family can go to and enjoy the time together. Make sure to mark the
occasion with a couple of pictures that you can print for your loved one as a
memento of the time together.
·
Remember, it
doesn’t have to be perfect! No one said that every cookie
has to be perfectly iced, every ornament in exactly the right place or every
package wrapped with the perfect ribbon and bows. Sometimes the most memorable
events are the ones when things aren’t perfect. “Remember when Uncle Joe
spelled mom’s name wrong on the package?” “Remember when mom let us put the
ornaments on the tree and we each divided up our sections?” Those were the good
‘ol days!
·
Remember the
reason for the season. In the whole scheme of things, it’s okay if there is one less cookie or
perfectly-wrapped package. If you can spend more time with your family sitting
by a fire, singing a carol, or watching a classic movie, your holiday season
will be a success!
At Assisting Hands® Home Care, our goal is to provide our
clients with the help they need to keep them safely in their own home for
longer. We also provide a respite for a family caregiver who needs a break from
their caregiving duties or who can’t manage all those duties by themselves any
longer.
Whether you need
someone to be with your loved one during the day, in the evening or overnight,
our at-home care can accommodate your needs. You will have peace of mind
knowing that they aren’t home alone when they need help with medication, fall
prevention, personal care, eating or other needs.
Contact us today to
schedule your free in-home fall prevention assessment at 630-305-9100. To learn
more about our in home senior care, click here.